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Sometimes people come into your life
/ T9 g0 g! I4 m5 }& Z9 T; y: qyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
) L( W8 m2 Z; D5 t: D: M2 Rto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
9 q3 ]4 n7 o( k" @* B1 B) U: ] C) hor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.* l2 |; u- X' Y
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You never know who these people may be9 o; i8 f" m' [7 W% T, l
but when you lock eyes with them,/ ^" e( |2 B/ @; j8 ?1 g7 Z. N
you know at that very moment,, S$ v) l S' Q! ]
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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8 o$ `- ~9 s& R) n( a O2 \They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
1 J. W. R. ~- f/ J9 c3 ?* UThey are there for the reason you need them to be.2 T5 i. k% O/ ^' x o
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.% i a( N3 y; U
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.1 r4 O- V, w# a* M
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.6 F* E! Q$ }0 O
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5 z& C P$ l) F/ [; D' v& SWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,7 u. x9 T) o; i* {
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
$ N" z* A7 _+ A7 N. B2 }The prayer you sent up has been answered.
7 t0 S5 n4 i. b+ b# P/ LAnd now it is time for you to move on.' a: y Z/ j( j. o$ P9 \# M
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
6 W9 k' H! Q& X% [! z7 YBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
* r; p/ F$ m$ e- [: lThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
8 z- t+ u: A$ `They may teach you something you have never done.
% I1 h9 t3 Q9 w! B! u9 tThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
- w0 u1 z7 m1 B% B: S/ C7 Y5 @$ JBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦* q) E7 s0 \$ i( {* R' Q) w
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4 {7 T! |/ Y5 G3 f: T. z% @$ x# ~LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
2 @; j; D. m- ?" U, tYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
3 s6 ?5 L4 C! {+ aPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 x$ J4 X j: Q6 X# Q6 b, E
Everything happens for a reason.) z$ V5 u( }( Y' k% I
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
' \( L4 H5 T+ b+ I+ L% wIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
) g1 j J' u" q% f | y( tand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.5 _- [& y7 q- E2 _% b
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
! d, M" h6 v, b; ] T% jYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
) b4 U2 Y. ~" ]7 R/ {& L+ M" xIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,: u- ^4 c2 ^7 f2 o* t+ b$ K
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,& o0 P) m8 P. b: \+ O
Try to love them back unconditionally,: y: B( ]1 l L8 w I
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
$ U; k7 Z# d8 ythey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season," ?) A* Q& ^. P) n% E
6 J% Z/ i. t, w \6 Q; e( Rand a time to every purpose under the sun.* |+ n3 ~+ ]- a& K8 N- _
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
- }' ~1 p- w5 Y" ]8 Gand a time to pluck up that which is planted...": Z* N+ ?1 N/ G& v: P% B; f4 X
God's grace is as a healing hand.
' A R5 _+ Q p; @( I* ^! Z. |As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,1 Z3 N; R6 v' ?
the warm memories and love for those we have lost% g9 o# H3 ^, x. k$ p) j- r9 J- D5 E( _
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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